WARNING!
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Here it is, Bloggy friends, the “How to Curl Your Hair with Rags” post.
There is a multitude of “how to” videos on you tube, but they all miss something that I think makes a huge difference to your result. But I’m jumping ahead.
First decide if you want tight ringlets, or loose, soft curls that will drop into a wave. If you want softer curls, use large sections of hair in each rag, and a larger rag (socks are great for soft curls). Tighter curls need smaller sections and a thinner rag.

Here’s a comparison on the Chicklette’s hair: socks above, chux below. Keep in mind that her hair is thick, straight, and past her waist in length. In both pictures, it is straight out of the rags, with nothing done to it yet. You can separate the curls to get a fluffier look, and in time, both will relax to a looser curl than they show here.

Decide if you want sausage curls, or spirals. See (directly) above how some of the Chicklette’s hair is in long sausage curls the same as Miss 13 in the first colour photo in this post? The sausage curls are NOT twisted while wound. The thinner, more open looking curls that look like springs in amongst the Chicklette’s hair were twisted while winding. You can choose to have all of one sort, or in the case above where I was putting her hair up, I chose a mix.
Timing is everything. Truly, don’t believe all those people who say to damp your hair and leave it overnight, or a few hours. If you take the rags out while your hair has so much as a lick of moisture left in it – the curls will drop out before you can say, “Now, wasn’t that a waste of time?” And what’s more, if you want those curls to last all day and night for your big event, you want to have them damp to start. So.. you can either sit under a dryer, or use a blow dryer with a diffuser attachment to boost the drying process, or do it sufficiently early for them to dry naturally.
If you have very hard to hold hair, if it doesn’t normally stay in when you use hot rollers, or your hair is very long, you may want to start with clean, DRY hair, and use a pump hairspray to damp each curl as you wind it, or have almost dry hair and add plenty of mousse or setting lotion.
First collect your medium. You can use Chux cut into pieces about the size of a handkerchief. Or you can use a bunch of handkerchiefs (just visit Gran and clean out her draw). Or you can use socks (the thin sort), or strips of paper bag, or cut up sheets, towels, t-shirts, stockings, or …. I’m sure you can probably think of something else to add to the list.
You will need also:
a fine tooth comb
setting agent (gel, hairspray, mousse, etc)
clips to keep hair out of the way while winding
and….
end papers.
What are end papers, I hear you ask? Well. Let me tell you, folks. They are the part everyone leaves out that I think makes the huge difference to your results. Here’s what they look like.
The difference is that the ends won’t crumple up. Let me show you what I saw over and over when watching the video responses to the how to curl your hair tutorials on you tube.
See this curl below?
See how the end is all crumpled?
Nasty!
It should look like this:
See how the end sits in a circle, with no fish-hook effect? That’s what you’re aiming for. One or two little fish hooks can be remedied with a curling iron, but to have them all over is a disaster too monstrous to contemplate.
Once you’ve decided what kind of curl you’re aiming for, and you have all your equipment ready to hand, it’s time to begin!
Section off the top of the hair and clip it out of the way. If you start from the top, you will have to delve under the already tied hair to get your sections, and that will get old in a hurry. Apply your styling agent, or if it’s dry, remember to spray each section with hairspray as you go. Use a towel to protect the back of the neck (because all that hairspray is going to feel terrible on the skin, not to mention the possibility of it causing a reaction: so for little children, it is better to use a mousse that you can control the application of better, and avoid the scalp.)
Starting at the bottom, take a section of hair, hairspray the entire length of it if it’s dry, and apply an end paper.
Fold it toward you as shown in the next image or when you wind the hair up, it will constrain it too fiercely.
Wind it on the rolled rag the same way you would a conventional roller.
Wind so the hair doesn’t overlap: it will take longer to dry if you pile it on top of itself; it will mean a smaller curl at the bottom and looser toward the head; and the curl may come out wonky if you slip first one way, then the other way, when winding.
So.. avoid that calamity and wind it each loop of hair sitting next to the last one you wound on the rag. At this stage, twist the rag a few times if you prefer a spiral curl, then keep winding.
When it’s all wound, tie a knot.
That’s how happens.
Keep going all over…
When it is time to remove the rags, unwind them: don’t pull at them. Leave them as they come out, or separate them for a fluffier look. The image below was taken at 11am, and contrasted with the image taken at 9:30pm, will give an indication of how much the curls will relax.
If you have to take them out some time before your event, buy a hairnet from the chemist, and gently collect the curls up in it. Remove just before you arrive. Miss 13 remained in the glamorous state below for hours while travelling, to preserve the curl.
The result will depend on how much product you used on the hair, how small your sections were when winding, what size rags you used, how long and heavy your hair is… there are many variables. The image below, taken ten hours after the rags were out, shows how much the curls had relaxed in that time.
If you have an important event, it is worth having a trial run of setting your hair to see how long it takes to dry, how long the curls last, and if what you’re doing achieves the result you are after. It will also tell you if it is worth having bags under your eyes. Because I have it on good authority (thank you Fee), that it is a special kind of torture to sleep in them. I haven’t done so myself, having hair that curls all by its lonesome, but when I mentioned Fee’s comment to my own children (who have all worn them to bed on several occasions) they confirmed it is, indeed, remarkably uncomfortable.
Happy hair curling, folks! :D
















Aug 23, 2011 @ 09:36:44
Don’t they look beautiful? My mum used to put rollers/curlers in my hair and they were horrendous to sleep in! But I did love the effect.
Aug 23, 2011 @ 11:54:03
Susan, I think it may be the loving the effect part influencing my girls keeping their peace about the discomfort until I actually asked. It hadn’t occurred to me until Fee mentioned her own childhood trauma with rags, that it would be that bad.. Of course, I’ve not tried it on myself: I’m quite happy with hearsay
Aug 23, 2011 @ 11:06:05
You’ve done a fabulous job and the girls look very gorgeous!
Like Susan, Mum used to put curlers in for us sometimes and I found them painful. I attempted to do my own girls hair once or twice but not very successfully and I remember their excitement when they actually had this sort of thing done at a hair dresser for a special occasion.
Aug 23, 2011 @ 12:00:34
Thanks, Ruby. I didn’t realise until I started how much there was to explaining it, there are so many factors to consider. So I can understand you having mixed results.
My girls do enjoy having their hair done for special occasions, too. It’s hard to believe that out of four girls, not one of them came with curls of their own!
Aug 23, 2011 @ 17:43:31
Wow, thats awesome, I’ll have to give this a go!
The two chicklettes look stunning!
Blessings,
Meggie
Aug 25, 2011 @ 11:42:33
Thanks, Meggie. Send me a pic if you give it a go!
Aug 24, 2011 @ 08:28:47
My mother never put our hair in rags as a form of torture, but she did pull back so tightly on our “french” braids that I could barely close my eyelids.
While the effect is pretty, I’m not sure I have the patience (nor does my little princess!) to do her hair in the way you described!
Aug 25, 2011 @ 11:46:34
Ha! Whitney, I remember the french braids that were almost a non-surgical face lift!
For wee little ones, especially if they still have very fine hair, I think the hot curling sticks (the bendy ones) are much better. I wouldn’t do it to a little person for fun, but Blossy HAD to have curls to match the big girls, or there would have been a riot. But there was no way the rags were going in her hair over night. Proportionately, that would be like going to bed with potatoes stuck all over your head
The hot curlers were in and out is a short time, and she looked like a little lamb.. her hair being only a short bob anyway. But she was happy.
Aug 24, 2011 @ 23:25:37
nice curls
Aug 25, 2011 @ 11:49:30
Now I *know* your Mama didn’t need to put rags in your hair.
Imagine the dramas I could save if curls like yours were reserved for girls!
Sep 07, 2011 @ 04:14:08
Aug 26, 2011 @ 22:21:39
Wow… the effect is beautiful! Mind you, it certainly helped to have a gorgeous heads of hair to start with didn’t it!
My own experience with rags was terrible. It was for a wedding when I was 14, and I had thick, thick, thick very long hair. My mother used flanelette bed sheeting. When it came time to take it out prior to the wedding, the strips of material had frayed, and woven themselves into my hair. It was torture getting the rags out, and I looked like I had an afro. IF I can find a photo, I just may be brave enough to send it to you. It would serve as an example of what NOT to do.
Ah.. if only there was the internet back then, my mother could’ve learned a thing or two from this blog!
Now…where is my daughter?
Aug 26, 2011 @ 22:23:41
I confess, but you knew it was me all along didn’t you?
Aug 28, 2011 @ 21:46:07
It took only the title. Only the title, Heidi, and I knew it couldn’t be anyone else!
I’d LOVE to see the photo. It would delight me to see the photo.
Aug 27, 2011 @ 09:59:39
LOL Heidi, you’re a laugh!
All I can say is that I *LOVE* my straightener, because I can do large curls with it. I would be totally lost without it. However, I would not use it on little girls hair.
Aug 28, 2011 @ 21:54:55
Susan, have you ever taken a few layers off your ear with it? Those things should come with a huge packet of bandaids.
Aug 29, 2011 @ 23:24:37
Actually BB, the more I use it, the better I get at it. Go figure, eh??!!
I used to burn my fingers and my ear but I’m quite the handy one now with it.
Although it does seem totally ridiculous to me that I would get my hair permed… to then use a straightener on it. LOL Ah, the things I do in the name of femininity.::sigh::
Aug 30, 2011 @ 22:26:36
Our Susan, perming…. and a straightener?!?
Your poor hair! Have you tried setting it on big velcro rollers to give it a rest from the chemicals and heat? I’m sure it would love you for it.
Aug 31, 2011 @ 11:20:26
Well, I only perm it once a year, if that. I really love how curly it is in the first few months and then it settles and as it gets longer the weight of the hair drops the curls so that’s when I straighten it occasionally fora different look. But straightening over the perm gives me volume. I have naturally stick straight hair which is very fine and it sticks to my head and I can look almost bald. But I’m an ’80′s gal- which means I like BIG, lol.
Mind you, the hair straighteners are so much better than the curing tongs we had in the ’80′s. Man, those things would dry one’s hair out so bad, but the new straighteners are really quite gentle.
I have my teen girls to thank for introducing me to the pleasures of straighteners
Sep 01, 2011 @ 09:01:25
I’m an ’80′s gal- which means I like BIG, lol.
You do make me laugh!
Aug 28, 2011 @ 18:42:13
Aaaaggghhhhh ….
Ok …. I’m back …. just!!!! That was de ja vu – making me run off like that.
Great post Mrs BB. The rags in my hair were actually homemade using long cotton strips which had cotton wool stuffed (and sewn) in the centre section. So Mum would wind the hair around the cotton wool section to give the curls a bit of “bulk” then the long length either end would be tied off at the top.
The curls always looked beautiful I have to say (and lasted well). My hair never did very well with curling irons – the curls would drop out in about 2 minutes flat – and back in the good old days we mostly only had hair spray – no fancy mousses etc.
Your girls look absolutely stunning – and I’m sure the night of discomfort is well worth those beautiful curls.
I’m not sure that Miss B would be willing to subject her head to such torture??!! I will show her the photos and ask her. Maybe she would like to have beautiful curls for a day??
Well done you! Fee x
Aug 28, 2011 @ 22:01:16
Hehehe.. Poor Fee.
You’re quite right that the rag curls will outlast curling irons by miles. Neither option is comfy, exactly, but at least with the misery of the rags you have the comfort of knowing you are suffering for a reliable result.
The idea of the cotton wool stuffed rags sounds good. I don’t think I am dedicated enough to do it with all my lot though: too many! But I am sure they would be easier to wind.
Do post a pic of Bella if she is tempted to give it a try!
Aug 31, 2011 @ 22:55:03
Good Lord! This is indeed a girly post.
Sep 01, 2011 @ 09:39:42
Can’t be helped, Sir Burstmode. You know mine is a very pink household.
Nov 05, 2011 @ 07:43:44
Wow! I would love to do this, and without a doubt, do not have the patience for it. Maybe I can get my sister to help next time we get together, lol.
Nov 08, 2011 @ 20:21:46
Hello Yousie!
Having a helper sounds like a great idea. It would be kinder to the person having it done, too, to have it over with quicker. Let me know if you get brave enough!
Nov 08, 2011 @ 21:05:28
It’s not really a matter of bravery but proximity. My sister is in the south and I’m in the north. I don’t expect to see her again anytime soon, unfortunately. I did get to spend 2 1/2 weeks down there in October though. L o v e l y!
Nov 08, 2011 @ 22:25:26
Oh! Poor Yousei!
Sisters should be closer. I’m sure of it. Still, if you get together again, you can catch up over a pile of hair ties…
Nov 09, 2011 @ 08:54:29
And brownies and a romantic movie and a big pot of coffee … Wonder how much airline tickets are now?
Nov 09, 2011 @ 10:51:45
lol! You could go halvsies in the fare for the next birthdays…
Dec 30, 2011 @ 08:04:44
Love curls with socks!!!!!!!
Dec 30, 2011 @ 19:42:08
Glad to hear it!
Thanks for stopping to say Hi!
Apr 20, 2012 @ 02:46:25
Where can i buy this?
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Im live in sweden……
And do you know where i can buy it in sweden?